It’s been almost a year since I left South Korea. I can’t believe it. I left there on Sept. 1, I think. Or was it Sept. 2nd? I don’t know. Although, I could have left there on the 1st and arrived in Nebraska on the 1st, or left there on the 2nd and arrived in Nebraska on the 2nd. Who knows. All I know is that I was definitely in Korea for a good 18 months out of my young, naïve life. Ahh. Those were the days.

Ju Eun, Trevor, Me and Ju Young.
Careless, free, adventurous, being the white guy everywhere I went, ordering food in Korean, meeting people from Korea and abroad … man… those were the days. Now I’m an old, grown up dude working a big kid job just being a white guy in the land of white people.
But it’s nice to have visitors from Korea to make that experience feel even more than it was. To solidify it. An experience that makes me think “Yeah. Hell yeah. I was there and I met these amazing people and it undoubtedly changed the course of my life.”

Trevor and I on the way to Silverton.
This past weekend my homies from Gwangju made their way to Colorado for a few days. First, they were in Utah visiting Trevor’s family. They were there for a few weeks.
It must have been an interesting transition coming from one of the most morally strict states in the union to one of the least strict states in the union. In Utah, most liquor stores are open really weird hours, like 8-5 p.m., so I think they were happy to be free again in the land of the free.

I met Trevor, Ju Young and Ju Eun when I was in Korea. Trevor is from Utah and moved to Korea about a couple years before me. Trevor met Ju Young in Gwangju. Trevor and Ju Young started dating. And about two years later I invaded Gwangju and made my presence known pretty soon after I arrived.

Driving into Silverton.
I can remember a couple weeks, maybe one? after I was in Korea, I went downtown for some drinks with my co-workers. I ran into Ju Young and her little sister Ju Eun. I don’t know where Trevor was. But he wasn’t there and I didn’t meet him until a few months after that. But I talked to them and Ju Young went on to tell me that she had a boyfriend from Utah.
Ju Young had mentioned in our conversation that she had a single friend, actually. And actually, I started dating her friend, Bo, a couple months after that. And so, it began. I started to get to know Ju Young, Trevor and Ju Eun over the course of the rest of my time in Korea.

This has happened a lot lately. The deer just show up on people's lawns and start hanging out. JuYoung and Ju Eun really liked that part of Durango.
I was really happy and thankful to meet such good people while I was there. Trevor and Ju Young are really cool, kind people and I think we will continue to be friends for a long time. This was Ju Young’s second time in the U.S.A. and her little sister’s first. So it was definitely exciting for both of them to be here. Trevor works at a university near Gwangju and he gets really good vacation time in the summer and winter seasons. So he was able to come back to see his family with Ju Young.

And this was the next day outside my house.
Actually, last summer they got married in Gwangju and Trevor’s mom and dad was there for it. So that was pretty cool. They then took a trip to China with together with his parents. So that’s kind of cool, I think.
Before I came to Colorado I contacted Trevor and asked him if he planned on being in the States any time soon, because I though I remembered him talking about making a trip back home this summer when I was in Korea. Colorado and Utah are right next to each other, so I thought it might be a good opportunity to hang out. Although, to his disappointment, we wouldn’t be meeting in Hawaii since I was leaving there, he said yes so we went from there and started making the plans to hang out.

Silverton.
The plans ended up working pretty good. Although, I only had one day off. The time I did have off from work was spent wisely and we had a great frickin time. I think I was so excited for their arrival that I could barely concentrate on anything on the day of their arrival. I mean, seriously, to meet your friends in another place, another country, it’s an incredibly cool thing.

A herd of deer chillin outside of Telluride, or "To Hell We Ride!" as Trevor read in a book.
I got a message from Trevor on Facebook Thursday night and he said they were in Durango, so I told him to meet me the El Rancho bar down the street from the newspaper. El Rancho is the most American bar in Durango, I think, so I thought it’d be a suitable location to reconvene.
Coincidentally, that day my boss gave everyone on the news desk a bottle of pretty nice Champagne to say “thanks” so in return, I took that bottle and shared it with Trevor and Ju Young. I hurried to the El Rancho bar when I got off work to meet them. They were the first to recognize me when I entered the bar. I didn’t recognize Trevor at first, because he had been working on a huge beard for the past few months. I couldn’t believe it was him at first.

Ouray rhymes with HURRAY!
They also didn’t recognize me, I guess. They said I lost a lot of weight since I left Korea. That is really surprising me to me, because I didn’t know that I put on weight in the first place. But I think I recall a period when I kind of noticed that I felt a little bigger around the waist and thinking that I gained a little when I got on the scale.
I think I gained some weight when I was in Honolulu for school and when I initially got to Korea, because I ate and drank a lot. But being in America has been surprisingly good for my health. It’s probably not because the food is healthier, but maybe more because of financial reasons and only making $40 a week on Molokai. I didn’t drink a lot of beer there and eat a lot of junk food.

Anyways. Enough about Mark’s sudden weight loss. The Koreans and their blunt demeanor was really refreshing. It was also great to hear the Korean language again. The shots came, the beer flowed and the reminiscing began almost instantaneously.

This is riding into To Hell We Ride. One more reason that makes me happy to live here.
We tried to check out another bar that evening before the bars shut down at 2 a.m. We were able to get one more drink in at Lady Falkenburghs, before getting kicked out even before closing time. The Koreans were probably kind of shocked that bars actually close in America. In Korea they don’t really close. They just seem to stay open all night. Usually they don’t close until the last person is ready to leave.

But that is why we travel. To see how other people is pretty essential, I believe. The next day I didn’t have to work, so we decided to travel the 5 hour Million Dollar Highway. We passed through three main towns north of Durango. The area north of Durango is really beautiful. The mountains are spectacular. When you arrive at the first town, Silverton, you are the highest point of about 10,000 feet. Durango’s at about 7,000. So it’s a good climb.
We stopped in Silverton for a beer at the local brewery. Trevor and I tried a ‘sour’ beer. It was pretty interesting. Kind of tasted like lemonade. After that we were on our way to Ouray. It’s also a really nice mountain town north of Silverton. All of these little towns up there used to be mining communities. So along the road, you’ll see old mining equipment. It’s really cool.
The roads up there can be kind of scary, cause it kind of feels like you’re on the edge of the cliff on some parts and if you’re not careful, you could drive off, because there’s no guard rails.
We made our way to Telluride after Ouray. Telluride is an affluent mountain town. You pretty much have to be a millionaire to live there. The housing there is really expensive. There’s a lot of millionaires and billionaires retire there. There’s also the tallest waterfall on the mainland of America in Telluride.
So we checked that out, found that all the restaurants were either too expensive or too full to get a table, so we continued our journey back to Durango. Telluride was really beautiful I found and I’d love to go skiing there at their resort this winter. On the way, we stopped at little town called Rico at a bar and grill and had some dinner. It was good give them a true American experience of a small town bar and grill.
So all in all, to drive the Million Dollar Highway, it took about five hours. If I had a car, I would probably do that more. It’s seriously very beautiful.
So by the time we got back to Durango, we found that we were all very tired and we went to bed soon after. I worked the next day at the newspaper noon-9. Over my break, Ju Young cooked dinner for Trevor and I. She cooked an awesome Korean chicken meal. That was very nice of her.
They also had been to a garage sale while I was at work, and they had found a really nice shirt for me. I can wear it to work, parties, on dates, so I thank them for the find!
That night, I took them to a kegger at some dudes house. It was really fun. The Koreans had never seen a keg of beer before, so they loved it, I think. There was also a bonfire, so that was cool, too. They had brought me soju, Korean alcohol, so I brought a bottle to the party to show people how the Koreans do it. The people enjoyed it, I think.
The next day, we woke up very tired and confused about what happened the evening prior and carried ourselves to Doughworks, the best place to get a delicious American breakfast in Durango. Trevor and I had the breakfast burritos and Ju Young tried a omlett for the first time. I think she liked it.
After that, it was time say goodbye to them, so that pretty sad. Before they left, I gave them a tour of the newspaper. I don’t think they’d ever been in a newspaper office before, so they enjoyed that as much as I enjoyed showing them.
So, that was that. They came, they saw, they drank the wonderful Colorado beers, saw the beautiful San Juans of Southwest Colorado. It was amazing to see them again and I can’t wait to do it again. Maybe in Korea next time? Winter Olympics in PyeongChang, South Korea 2018? We’ll see. Seven years is a long time from now, but that will definitely be something to think about when the time is near.